The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Among lawful things, divorce is the most hated by Allah (SWT).” (Reported by Abu Dawud – Book of Prophet’s (pbuh) sayings)
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what [qualities] Allaah has given one over the other and what they spend [in support] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allaah would have them guard.} [Quran: 4:34]
EVALUATE AND TRY TO RECONCILE
The Quran says: “And if you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from his relatives and an arbiter from her relatives. If they both desire reconciliation Allah will affect harmony between them. Verily Allah has full knowledge, and is aware of everything.” (Quran – 4:35)
After a declaration of divorce, Islam requires a three-month waiting period (called the iddah) before the divorce is finalized.